Do you consider yourself a failure? If so, you shouldn’t, and I’ll tell you why.
Failure is a sign you’re on the road to success, no matter what you’re trying to accomplish. Anyone who isn’t failing isn’t trying new things. It’s healthy to fail. That’s how you learn!
You should never put a label on yourself, no matter what happened in the past. How did you learn to walk as a child? By falling and getting up. Imagine a two-year-old saying: “That’s it, I keep falling. I must be a loser; this is too hard for me.” No child ever does that, and nobody blames the child for falling a thousand times before learning to walk.
In the same way, you shouldn’t blame yourself.
Get up and try again. That’s the mindset that makes you successful no matter what you’re trying to get.
Then you’ll see that you can erase the word “failure” from your dictionary. Replace it with “learning experiences” that propel you towards your goal.
If you’re tired of blaming yourself and being hard on YOU for no good reason, then I suggest you listen to this free meditation with Mary Morrissey on how to create the life you truly want.